
Stress vs. Anxiety: What’s the Difference and Why It Matters
By: Shannon Olson, LCSW
In our fast-paced world, “stress” and “anxiety” have become part of our daily vocabulary. We say things like “I’m so stressed about this deadline” or “This meeting is giving me anxiety.” While the terms are often used interchangeably, they’re actually quite different — and understanding the distinction can make a big impact on your mental health.
What Is Stress?
Stress is your body’s natural response to a challenge or demand. It’s not always a bad thing — in fact, short bursts of stress can help you stay alert and focused, especially in high-pressure situations. That’s known as acute stress, and it’s usually short-term.
But when stress becomes chronic — lingering for weeks or months — it starts to take a toll on your physical and emotional health. Chronic stress has been linked to headaches, sleep problems, weakened immunity, and even heart disease.
Common causes of stress:
- Work pressure or deadlines
- Financial issues
- Relationship conflicts
- Major life changes (moving, loss, etc.)
What Is Anxiety?
Anxiety is a bit trickier. It’s more than a response to a specific event. Anxiety is a persistent feeling of worry, nervousness, or fear, even when there’s no immediate threat. It can show up physically (racing heart, restlessness, fatigue) and mentally (constant worry, difficulty concentrating).
While stress is a response to a current issue, anxiety tends to linger and can be triggered by the anticipation of future problems — real or imagined.
When anxiety becomes intense, long-lasting, and begins to interfere with daily life, it may be part of an anxiety disorder. This includes conditions like generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), panic disorder, and social anxiety disorder.
Key Differences Between Stress and Anxiety
Feature | Stress | Anxiety |
Triggered by | External situations | Internal thoughts or anticipation |
Duration | Often short-term | Can be long-term or chronic |
Symptoms | Tension, headaches, irritability | Worry, dread, restlessness, panic |
Management | Resolves when issue is handled | May persist without obvious cause |
How to Manage Both
Whether you’re dealing with stress, anxiety, or a mix of both (which is very common!), here are some helpful strategies:
✅ Practice mindfulness: Deep breathing, meditation, and grounding exercises help calm your nervous system.
✅ Exercise regularly: Physical activity reduces stress hormones and boosts mood.
✅ Get enough sleep: Poor sleep worsens both stress and anxiety.
✅ Talk it out: Speaking with a friend, counselor, or therapist can make a big difference.
✅ Set boundaries: Don’t overcommit yourself — your mental health matters.
When to Seek Help
If stress or anxiety is interfering with your work, relationships, or quality of life, it might be time to talk to a mental health professional. You don’t have to struggle alone, and getting help is a sign of strength — not weakness. Please reach out to us at Owens Counseling. We have a team ready to support you and make a difference in how you feel every day.
Final Thoughts
Stress and anxiety are both part of the human experience, but they aren’t the same. Understanding the difference is the first step toward managing them effectively. Be kind to yourself, recognize your limits, and remember: you’re not alone in this.
If you need some guidance on differentiating anxiety vs. stress, give us a call at
847-854-4333 to set up an appointment or admin@owenscounseling.com !